Go Slow

My Master was very clear with me about his relationship with Princess from the moment we met. I had no issue with him having a girlfriend as that would have been hypocritical on my part since I was sleeping with a married man at the time.

That did make me wonder briefly if my Master was optimistic about how Princess didn’t object to him having sex with other people as I have to admit I’ve heard quite a few variations of that line from coupled up men over my slutty past.

But perhaps selfishly I didn’t really care because I never thought at the start that things would be anything more than a (hopefully) filthy fling between us. His relationship was his issue and I just wanted to fuck him.

Unusually for me though I didn’t fuck him for several months after we met. I have never been one for observing any kind of ‘rules’ about sleeping with people like waiting til the third date or not.

I’m of the opinion the ‘right’ time to have sex with someone new is when you both want to rather than it being a socially acceptable timeframe. Wait five minutes or five years but the most important thing is that you both want to have sex with each other then.

However, I have generally tended to the five minutes scale of things. Prior to my Master I haven’t particularly well acquainted with the idea of commitment and relationships or frankly, delayed gratification.

I tended to pick my sexual experiences on how hot the other person was or how horny I was. How good an idea fucking that specific person was rarely entered my head because I was only ever thinking with my cunt.

I would have very happily fucked my Master the first time I met him and had he been a different kind of man it might well have been a fling that didn’t even involve going home together as I’d have sneaked out of the wedding we were at together and fucked him somewhere privately before going home alone.

Yet right from the start he exerted control of the situation and made me wait. He was extremely flirtatious and excellent company but he made it subtly clear we weren’t going to fuck then.

My assumption to begin with was that his girlfriend wasn’t quite as tolerant about other people as he suggested but then my Master spent the next few months quite obviously pursuing something with me and making me wait.

He made it quite clear that he wasn’t offering me the relationship he had with Princess which relieved me. I might not have realised I was looking for a D/s relationship (or that’s what this would become) but I did know I didn’t want a boyfriend.

So the clearer he was about the fact he and Princess were genuinely happy with the idea of both of them sleeping with other people as an enhancement to their relationship rather because anything was missing, the more I enjoyed waiting to fuck him.

Little did I realise at the time it was his first act of domination over me…

Go Slow

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